Stop Guessing Your Way Through Dating.
Whether you're newly single, returning after a long relationship, frustrated with modern dating, or simply ready for a more intentional approach, private coaching gives you something most singles don't have:
For 30 days, we'll help you better understand yourself, recognize the patterns shaping your dating life, clarify what you truly need in a partner, and create a personalized strategy for moving forward with confidence and intention.
30-Day Personalized Date Coaching
Your coaching is built around your individual relationship history, personality, goals, challenges, and aspirations. No two dating journeys are the same, so no two coaching experiences should be either.
More Than Dating Advice
You may not need someone to find your dates for you. You may simply need an experienced professional helping you understand who is truly compatible with you, what patterns may be influencing your choices, how you communicate, what you may be overlooking, and how to approach relationships with greater clarity.
As professional matchmakers and Certified Date & Relationship Coaches, we spend our days talking with singles, evaluating compatibility, hearing what happens on both sides of dating experiences, and helping people understand what creates meaningful, lasting connection.
Your Personality, Patterns & Relationship Blueprint
Before creating a dating strategy, we start by understanding you. Through personality assessment and guided conversation, we'll explore how your personality, communication style, relationship history, expectations, attachment patterns, values, and past experiences may influence the way you connect with others.
How your personality tends to show up in dating and relationships
Recurring relationship or attraction patterns
Strengths you bring to a partnership
Potential blind spots or habits that may be getting in your way
How you communicate needs, boundaries, interest, and expectations
What makes you feel connected, secure, valued, and understood
The difference between preferences, dealbreakers, and true compatibility
What you actually need in a healthy, lasting partner
What We Can Work On
Every coaching plan is customized to meet you exactly where you are in your relationship journey.
Relationship Readiness & Compatibility
Clarify what you're truly looking for, identify healthy compatibility, separate meaningful needs from surface preferences, and become more intentional about the relationships you pursue.
Dating Strategy & Confidence
Create a realistic, personalized plan for meeting people and moving through dating with greater confidence, clarity, and purpose.
Dating Apps, Profile & Presentation
If you're using apps, we'll help you choose the right platforms, review your profile, photos and messaging, and make sure your presentation reflects who you really are.
Communication & Boundaries
Strengthen the way you communicate interest, needs, expectations and boundaries while remaining confident, warm and authentic.
Patterns & Blind Spots
Recognize repeated attraction patterns, assumptions, habits or expectations that may be influencing your results without you realizing it.
Ongoing Professional Guidance
Use your between-session support to ask questions, work through dating situations, and get professional perspective as your month unfolds.
How the 30 Days Work
A structured, high-touch framework designed to deliver breakthrough clarity and practical forward momentum.
Begin With Your Deep-Dive Coaching Session
Your first 50-minute session focuses on understanding your personality, relationship history, patterns, goals, challenges, and what you're hoping to create in your next relationship.
Put Your Personalized Strategy Into Practice
During your 30 days, you'll have reasonable email or text access for questions, guidance, perspective, and support as you begin applying what you've learned.
Refine, Adjust & Move Forward
Your second 50-minute session is used to deepen the work, address what has surfaced, refine your strategy, and create clear next steps for continuing forward.
This program may be a great fit if you are:
Coaching or Matchmaking?
Choose the level of guidance and involvement that fits your current goals.
Personalized Date Coaching
You continue meeting and selecting your own potential partners while our team provides professional strategy, self-awareness, guidance, perspective and support.
Professional Matchmaking
Our team takes a hands-on role in your search by recruiting, screening and evaluating potential matches, coordinating introductions, gathering feedback and guiding you throughout the matchmaking experience.
Schedule a private conversation with our team to discuss your goals and find the right path forward.
Book a Complimentary ConsultationMeet Your Matchmakers
Your coaching is provided by the professional matchmaking team at Epiphany Match.
Crystal Boles and Jamie Doty are Certified Matchmakers and Certified Date & Relationship Coaches who work directly with relationship-minded singles navigating modern dating, compatibility, communication, and long-term relationships.
Unlike generic dating advice, your coaching is personal. We'll get to know your relationship history, dating experiences, personality, challenges, goals, and the type of partnership you're ultimately hoping to build.
Crystal Boles
Certified Date & Relationship Coach
Crystal is a relationship wellness educator with more than 20 years of experience helping people build healthier, more intentional relationships. She works with singles from a wide range of backgrounds, including divorced and widowed singles, high-performing professionals, and those who are simply ready to approach love differently.
Crystal helps clients slow down, recognize relationship patterns, get clear on what truly matters in a partner, and make more thoughtful choices in dating. Her approach is warm, practical, and focused on creating the kind of connection that can actually last.
Jamie Doty
Certified Date & Relationship Coach
Since 2008, Jamie has been helping individuals build stronger, more intentional relationships. Her greatest strength is her ability to truly listen—understanding what her clients are looking for, the experiences and patterns that have shaped their past, and what they genuinely need in a partner.
Jamie provides practical, candid perspective on modern dating dynamics, helping singles overcome frustration and move forward with clarity, boundaries, and genuine self-confidence.
“Crystal is the real deal! From our conversations and coaching sessions, she knew exactly what I wanted and gave recommendations to meet my relationship goals. She helped me not waste time with the wrong guys and gave me the perspective I needed.”Read Our 5-Star Google Reviews →
Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you need to know about the 30-Day Date Coaching experience.
Do I need to be actively dating right now?
No. Coaching can be especially valuable before you begin dating again. We can focus on relationship readiness, personality, patterns, compatibility, confidence, and creating a strategy for when you are ready.
Do I need to be using dating apps?
No. Dating app and profile guidance is available if it applies to you, but it is not required.
Does coaching include matchmaking introductions?
No. This program provides personalized dating and relationship coaching. Matchmaking introductions are part of our separate professional matchmaking programs.
Does the 30-day program automatically renew?
No. The $795 program is a one-time purchase and does not automatically renew.
When does my 30 days begin?
Your 30-day coaching period begins on the date of your first scheduled coaching session.
What does between-session support mean?
Reasonable email or text support is included for dating- and relationship-related questions that come up during your 30-day coaching period.
Your Next 30 Days Could Change the Way You Date
You don't have to figure everything out through trial and error. Give yourself 30 days of personalized strategy, greater self-awareness, professional perspective, honest feedback, and experienced guidance from people who understand modern dating from the inside.
Your 30-day coaching period begins with your first scheduled session. Coaching does not include matchmaking introductions and does not automatically renew.